The diagnosis of cancer is often a devastating blow. The diagnosis may have been quite unexpected, and there is shock and disbelief, and apprehension about what this means. All women diagnosed with cancer do wonder, even if only briefly, if they might die.
Treatment for gynaecological cancer usually involves surgery and often chemotherapy and
radiotherapy. All of these treatments affect the woman emotionally as well as physically. Many women are very conscious that a very private part of their body is affected, and are concerned about their femininity and how this will affect their sex life. Having a
hysterectomy is a concern for many women even if they consider their family complete, as they see their
uterus as defining their status as a woman. Becoming
menopausal following treatment may be associated with
distress about aging, and concerns about sex drive.
Even following successful treatment, many women find that they remain somewhat anxious. They are concerned that the cancer could return, and their confidence has often been affected. It may take some time for the woman to feel that she is "on top of things" again. Some women may become
depressed following diagnosis and treatment for cancer. Women may be reluctant to seek help, feeling that being "down" is normal after such an experience. Women may also feel reluctant to concern their doctors about these feelings, as they feel that this is selfish or a sign of weakness. Increasingly we are seeing that treating the whole person is important and women should feel confident about expressing concerns about how they are coping emotionally.
Depending on the exact location of the cancer, a woman may need to have
part of her vagina
removed. This clearly may have a large impact on sexual adjustment. Many
women are unaware that the normal vagina expands during sexual arousal,
and that removal of a portion of the vagina may not make a large
difference to their ability to have sex. Many women have fears about being
able to have sex after treatment, but find this a difficult issue to
discuss with their treating team.
If the woman becomes depressed,
there are very effective treatments available. The usual treatment would
be supportive counselling. Sometimes medication is also required.
In general the techniques involve efforts to enhance the woman's sense
of control over a stressful situation. Provision of information is
crucial. Not only does this allow the woman to participate in making an
informed decision about treatment, but also allows her to consider the
issues which may arise for her family in the future. The woman may have
false perceptions about her condition, and addressing these is important
in improving her emotional adjustment. Providing an opportunity for the
woman to express her emotional concerns, and offering ongoing support is
usually helpful. A key aspect is acknowledging the grief and loss inherent
in the diagnosis of cancer.
For some women, there is guilt about not having sought treatment
earlier, and many women are very distressed and concerned about their
family. Talking about these concerns, and exploring how realistic these
ideas are, is generally helpful. Every woman is different, and it is vital
that her unique strengths and concerns are treated with respect. In order
to assist each woman it is usually necessary to build a picture of the
type of person she is, including the experiences shaping her personality
and view of the world. In addition, consideration of her social
relationships and responsibilities provides an insight into the practical
issues she is facing in addition to the cancer. It is vital to give the
woman a sense of confidence that her concerns are understood, and to
instil a sense of hope about her ability to cope.
All psychological treatments are aimed at the particular woman and her
special concerns. Although there may be similarities in the emotional
concerns for some women because of the type of cancer for which they have
been treated, there are unique qualities of each woman which make it
difficult to generalise. It is a case of this particular woman who has
this cancer, rather than the particular cancer the woman has.
Many of the issues are similar to those for the women themselves. There
may be concerns about the woman's health and the fear that she could die.
Families often find it hard to talk about issues such as this, and often
avoid any emotionally laden subject. It is very difficult to stand by and
see someone about whom you care undergo treatment for cancer, especially
when you feel helpless. There is good evidence that many family members
are severely stressed and
anxious, or clinically
depressed, although
few seek professional help. Many feel that they have to be strong to help
the woman cope with treatment, and that to ask for help for themselves
would be a sign of weakness. Partners are often afraid of losing emotional
control, and feel particularly helpless if the woman is upset, so urge her
to "think positive". This is not always helpful for the woman -
in general it is better to share thoughts and feelings even if they are
painful. The need for appropriate information is significant for families,
and affects how they cope. As for the woman herself, the coping and
relationships within the family before the diagnosis of cancer will
influence adjustment during treatment.
The techniques are broadly as described for woman themselves. One of
the common perceptions of family members (and women themselves) is that
they can "get back to normal" after the treatment, so they
devote time and energy into trying to cope as before. Giving information
about the common patterns of responses, and helping family members to
consider that things will be different is vital. Facing the enormity of
what has happened allows family members and carers to adjust - things are
not necessarily worse than before, but they are different. Sometimes
families say that the experience of cancer has brought them closer
together and allowed them to value the things that really matter.
In cases where there have been problems in the relationships it is
often useful to have some counselling sessions with the couple, or the
whole family. During such sessions, there is an opportunity to explore
concerns, to receive information about common concerns of families in
which a member has cancer, and to discuss needs and expectations.
Improving the openness of communication often means that family members
feel less tense, and the chance to share even the sad feelings results in
greater closeness.
The key issues for women and their families are grief and loss, the
impact on body
image and sexuality, and the fear and lack of control implicit in the
diagnosis of any serious illness. Cancer continues to carry serious
connotations within the community and the fear that the woman could die
from her disease may be very pressing for some families. Concerns about body
image relate not just to the anatomical changes consequent upon
treatment, but to the sense that the body has been fundamentally changed,
and confidence and self-esteem are often markedly affected.
The impact of surgery varies, but the imposition of infertility is
important for younger women and those who have not yet had children or
completed their family. Induction of menopause may also be a source of
grief especially to the younger woman who feels that she is made old
before her time. The loss of the uterus may be a key concern for some
women even if post-menopausal, as for some women it is seen as a vital
part of femininity.
The need for a stoma carries significant psychological morbidity.
However there is evidence that preparation for a stoma pre-operatively
improves adjustment. Access to information and emotional support improves
adjustment.
Radiotherapy is often associated with significant changes in the
vaginal mucosa, and the capacity for lubrication with sexual arousal may
be reduced. This has clear implications for sexual functioning. Provision
of information about the specific techniques which may improve vaginal
elasticity and reduce the risk of stenosis is important.
Many women faced with a recent diagnosis of cancer feel that sexual
concerns are a longer-term issue which is less pressing than the immediate
treatment, and are reluctant to consider how they will feel in the future.
Some women feel embarrassed about the use of dilators or lubricants. For
these reasons, it is important that the woman's partner is involved in
discussions where possible, that the information is repeated and the
woman's understanding is checked, and that written information is provided
to aid recall.
Consideration of the need for chemotherapy may be stressful. Some women
have unrealistic concerns about how they would tolerate chemotherapy, or
have heard of someone who experienced major complications. The decision to
undertake a treatment which potentially involves adverse physical effects
when one currently feels physically very well, and for an uncertain
guarantee is complex. Hair loss from chemotherapy is medically minor but
may be intensely distressing to the woman. In addition, the tiredness
associated with chemotherapy may persist for some time, and may have a
major impact on the woman's emotional adjustment.
Informing the woman, and encouraging her to have realistic expectations
of coping, including accepting practical assistance if necessary, may be
helpful.
A significant number of women who have been treated for gynaecological
cancer suffer depression and anxiety for which effective treatments are
available. Those most at risk are those who are young, who have major
family responsibilities (young children), are on their own, have a past
history of mental illness such as depression, or who are facing social
adversity such as unemployment or financial hardship. Women who have
experienced loss or emotional trauma may be at increased risk. Advanced
disease stage, functional disability and the presence of pain, and
complications of treatment (such as lymphoedema) increase the risk of
depression.
A common mis-perception is that depression is a normal response to
serious illness, and that nothing can be done to help. In fact, if
depressed mood is sustained, there is impaired capacity for pleasure, and
there is disturbance of sleep, appetite or energy, a diagnosis of
depression should be considered. Emergence of suicidal ideation or lack of
hope for the future mandates psychological review, these symptoms are
nearly always associated with a depressive illness. A combination of
pharmacological treatments and supportive psychotherapy form the basis of
treatment, and most women respond well to this combination.
There are particular emotional needs arising for those women who have
advanced disease, including family concerns. Referral for emotional
support will often be helpful.
There is evidence that provision of appropriate information, good
communication skills, adequate preparation for surgical and other
treatments, as well as the provision of emotional support by the treatment
team may reduce the emotional morbidity for women and their families.
Jane Turner
MB,BS; F.R.A.N.Z.C.P.
Senior Lecturer, Department of Psychiatry, University of Queensland